Babies have good habits to benefit their lives
There are often incidents about young children being sexually injured. Telling children that some parts of the body are somewhere and how to protect some of them is something that parents should know and do well.
I have accumulated some experience in my research on children’s sexual health education, and parents and kindergarten teachers can refer to them and align them: draw boys and girls on a piece of paper, and let the children draw themselves if they can draw themIf the child is young, draw it by the father or mother. After drawing, let the child mark some parts of the boy’s and girl’s bodies with red pens. Don’t say “partial” directly in the words, because the child cannot understand.Children who can say “places that cannot be seen and touched by others” can understand and follow your instructions.
In my experience, some children are able to correctly mark certain places of boys and girls, but there are still many children who know these parts clearly. The parts they mark are eyes, hands, and feet. These children do not have the concept of privacy., So there is no sense of self-protection.
In the process of letting children mark, it is actually helping the child to establish the concept of protecting the body.
After the child’s marking is completed, if it is not correct, the parents should help the child understand correctly, and at the same time tell the child: you cannot look at and touch any part of other people’s body.
A kindergarten teacher told me such a thing: When a girl’s mother showered her child once, and found that the child’s genitals were a little scratched, she asked the child, and she said that it was caused by a boy sleeping next to herWe were really dizzy at the time. Fortunately, we checked the girl and there were no serious problems. We regretted it again. The boy’s parents beat the boy again. The girl’s parents stopped.
In kindergartens, such things happen from time to time, so for children over 3 years of age, such education can be carried out.
In addition, we saw in this incident that neither the parents of the boy or the girl did their duty to help the child. The boy was beaten, the girl might be scolded. They still do n’t know how to protect their preciousness.Parents’ incompetence is also the simplest and rude way of education!
Kindergartens should educate their children in this regard after this incident.
Parents also tell their children that if someone touches some part of themselves, they should tell their parents.
Many children do not know how to do this, so the offender has been sexually harmed to the child multiple times.
At present, there are more and more incidents of sexual harm to boys, so it is also very important to educate boys to protect their privacy.
I talked about the desire to satisfy children’s understanding of the adult’s body before, and now I talk about teaching children to protect the individual and not be able to expose parts of it. This seems to be a contradiction. In fact, otherwise, in the education of children, I think we can firstSatisfy the child’s curiosity, after he understands the human body, and then educate about privacy protection, so that there is no conflict.
Good Sleeping Habits Sleeping Sweet Sleeping Good Habits 2
A 3-month baby wakes up longer than a newborn, and can begin to cultivate a good sleep habit.
Let your baby develop circadian rhythm early, which is good for your baby’s healthy growth.
The general principle to be followed is to shorten the baby’s sleep time during the day and prolong the sleep time at night.
The first trick is to let the baby play enough in the daytime. After the baby wakes up at about 9 am and 16 pm, you can increase his wake-up time by gradually extending his outdoor activities, game activities, touching activities, and listening to music, butBe careful not to let your baby feel tired.
If you shorten your sleep time by 20 minutes each in the morning and afternoon, your baby will have 40 minutes more waking time during the day, so that the baby can receive more and richer stimulation, and physical, immune and brain functions will be promoted.
The second step is to start the sleep program. When the baby wakes up during the day, you should not rush to change diapers and feed him, but intentionally extend his wake up time, such as trying to communicate with him or doing passive exercises for him.
Avoid feeding regularly at night, don’t just wake him up because it’s time to drink.
The longer the continuous sleep at night, the better the baby’s development.
When you go to sleep at night, it’s time to start the sleep program: After drinking milk, you can talk to your baby, put about 30 minutes of music or soundtrack story, and accompany the baby to sleep at night, thereby extending the night’s sleep time.
With the increase of the age of the month, the content of the baby’s regular sleep program should also increase appropriately.
It is particularly reminded that when sleeping during the day, it is best not to use music or soundtrack stories to accompany it. The sleep regulation program is deliberately creating the conditioned reflex of night sleep, so that the baby knows that “this is night, you should sleep more.”
Don’t miss the critical period of developing good sleep habits. 7-12 months is an important period for your baby to develop good sleep habits. Your efforts at this time will increase your baby’s healthy growth.
1. Prepare a soft, light-colored, cotton or flannel quilt for your baby: 2. The quilt covered by the baby should be loose, especially the feet should be easier, it must not be too thick, otherwise the quilt will be stepped on, and the baby will insteadEasy to catch cold 3, regular exercise with your baby 1 hour after dinner or 1 hour before bedtime, about 20 minutes, can improve the quality of sleep at night and extend the continuous sleep time at night.
The content of normal sexual movements can be crawling movements, active and passive exercises, wrapping exercises and so on.
4. Create a fixed sleep program before going to bed at night and establish sleep conditioning.
Procedure A: Wash your baby’s face, hands, feet, and remember to wash the small butt after urination. Procedure B: Drink about 200 ml of breast milk or formula, and then clean the mouth. C: Put on your baby’s sleeping clothes and sleep on the bed.D: Tell the baby a happy story, or directly talk with him gently for about 20 minutes. Program E: After the baby is about to fall asleep, switch to recording stories and music for 30 minutes, and accompany the baby to sleep.
5 Avoid bad habits such as sleeping, hugging, and slapping, and the room where the baby sleeps should not have noise and glare.
Good health habits make your body healthier?
“Pee” training to observe the urinary expression baby will have some irritating reactions before urination, such as forced facial expression, dull eyes or glaring eyes, crossed legs, etc. At this time, give the baby “piss” and send it in your mouth”Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!”
To grasp the regularity of urination, it is necessary to grasp the regularity of urination of babies, and to find the interval time of “putting urine”, usually “putting urine” more often during the day, and less frequently during the night.
Do not prolong your baby ‘s peeing. You need to gradually extend the “pee pee” interval consciously to increase your baby ‘s bladder filling, which is good for your baby ‘s growth.
End the era of diapers as soon as possible. When you gradually master your baby’s urination rules, you will consciously reduce the time you use diapers during the day, and finally do not use diapers at all.
After using diapers, let your baby wear full crotch pants, which is more meaningful for female babies and can reduce the chance of urinary tract infection.
Using diapers for too long tends to reduce the baby’s ability to control urination, which is not conducive to the development of cognitive ability.
There is also a bathroom in the baby’s world. After 2 years old, the baby has an active sense of urination. At this time, the baby can be guided to the bathroom to complete the stool or urinate.ability.
Guide your baby to the bathroom to poop and urinate. At first you can help him put on and take off his pants and gradually teach him to cook by himself.
After finishing the stool or urination, teach your baby to wash your hands and dry them with a towel.
At the same time, teach him not to be afraid of trouble and wash his hands every time so that he can develop a good habit of washing his hands after pooping.
When the baby can be successfully completed, you should give appropriate praise; if the baby is not good, you must not reprimand him or guide him patiently.
When it’s time to poop, your baby sometimes forgets because of playfulness. At this time, you should remind him, otherwise it will affect the regularity of the stool and cause constipation.
Baby pants should be loose and easy to take off, and the underwear should not be too tight, otherwise it will induce nervous urination.
Many good qualities are good habits that have been developed since childhood. It is the so-called “habits become nature.”
Before the baby is 3 years old, the cultivation of behavior habits can begin with civility, politeness, willingness to share and self-reliance.
Civilization and politeness are basic etiquette. Babies are also natural by nature, unrestrained, and their actions are often “shocking.”
Although this is innocent, but in front of relatives and friends, in social occasions, it is better for the baby to understand social etiquette.
Mom and Dad are good role models Before guests come home, moms usually make some preparations, such as preparing fruits and snacks.
Attentive parents will take care of the baby, who will come today and so on.
When welcoming the guests, be sure to let the baby also come to the door and ask him to say “goodbye” in time.
When you entertain guests, the baby is also the little owner. He can do things he can, such as entertaining little guests.
You have to set an example before you can make your baby feel like a little host and inspire him to entertain guests.
The etiquette of the baby has begun to sprout. In addition to becoming a role model for the baby, you must also pay attention to the baby’s reaction to the guests at any time. Maybe unknowingly, the baby is already a decent little master.
Do you observe your baby’s performance as follows 😕
Before the guests come, will you be happy when your baby is preparing: “Mom, I’ll help you get the fruit.
“Mom, I can give them chocolate.”
When the doorbell rings, will the baby rush to open the door, greet the guests, and tell you: “Uncle, aunt is here.”
Wait for the guests to sit down, whether the baby is willing to give you food under your guidance.
If there is a small guest, will the baby actively play with the small guest and share his toys with him.
When the guest says goodbye, will the baby take the initiative to go to the door and say “goodbye” to the guest.
If the baby has already done the above points, then congratulations, the baby is already a little gentleman in social aspects; if the baby has not yet done this, don’t worry, after all, the baby is young, and everything will be the firstonce.
Everyone encourages the baby’s parents in time. The most important thing is not to force the baby to do anything, but when the baby shows his etiquette sprout, you must praise him and encourage him.
If the baby is “extraordinarily playing”, ask the guest “It rains outside, is there an umbrella?
“Or eat at our house!”
“You have to encourage him even more.
”You’re so good, you know you care about others and you’ve grown up, right?
“Our baby is a good boy. We will do the same next time, OK?
“” When did you learn to create it? Mom is very happy and very happy. If the guest’s praise is convenient, you can talk to the guest in advance and praise the baby’s good performance.
To a certain extent, the guests must express their acceptance of the baby’s service. For the baby, the praise of the guests is different. It is a kind of gratitude to others after helping others.
At this time, the baby may be very proud and a little embarrassed.
If you are going to be a guest at someone else’s house, you have to praise the baby of another house.
Obviously the baby’s fault is in front of the guests, especially the young guests, criticizing the baby will make him very sad.
If the baby did something wrong, don’t scold him in front of the guest, just say, “Today’s TV is very good. What are you going to see?
“Do you water the flowers today?”
“You can show a show to everyone, okay?
“This will divert the attention of the baby and the guests. The baby will not feel wronged, and the guests will not feel embarrassed.
Wait until the guests have gone before telling the truth to the baby.
Your words and deeds, timely praise and encouragement, and every sincere thanks from the guests will make your baby experience his own accomplishment and sense of accomplishment.
The willingness to share is the charm. It is said that sharing is the pressure and catalyst of good interpersonal relationships, and an important factor for the success of modern people.
Having a good sense of sharing has also become a compulsory course for babies.
So where should the baby’s sharing consciousness be obtained, and when should it be started? From the turn, the 2-year-old baby has not been able to recognize the meaning of cooperation, but has the intention to play with other babies.
In many cases, he just likes to play next to other babies and does not communicate with each other: two babies may take turns to play a certain game, such as pushing the ball to the other party under the guidance of an adult.
It is difficult for three or more people to turn around because the baby has no patience to experience a long wait.
Knowing this, you don’t have to put too high demands on your baby’s behavior. Playing games with your baby in a timely manner is a good choice.
When eating fruit with your baby, you can feed him or ask him to feed you.
In the process, help your baby establish the concept of rotation and help him control his emotions.
”This is for the baby, this is for the mother.
“Now it’s mom’s turn.
“Can’t be angry, just said, baby, mother.
You can’t eat anymore, this is mine.
At this time, parents are encouraged to “contend for food” with their babies.
Sharing starts from restricted behaviors. When the baby is about 3 years old, simple sharing behaviors begin to appear, such as sharing the cookies he is trying to give to others.
At this time, the baby’s sharing behavior is limited, he can’t show goodwill to anyone, and usually only shows kindness to special people (comrades or family members who can see the eyes).
For a baby of this age, you force him to share everything with other partners, it seems unrealistic.
Similarly, blame other babies for not knowing how to share and inappropriate.
You need to help your baby understand this behavior of other partners: “Today Xiaoming is not willing to give you toys to play with, I know you are very unhappy.
“(Help your baby to vent his unhappiness)” You have a new toy. Would you like to play with other children? ”
“” You have new toys that you don’t want to play with other children, for fear they will break the toy.
Xiao Ming thinks so too.
“(Help your baby understand the ideas of others. Of course, with your baby’s sharing behavior, you often want him to have cooperative behavior, but the real cooperative behavior of the baby often comes after 4 years old.
Don’t fight before that, cultivate your baby’s sense of cooperation in the game 😕
Game material: a small blanket, an air balloon or an inflatable ball pLAY: Please let your mother squat down, and keep your hands at the same level as your baby.
Mother and baby hold the two levels of the small blanket face to face, and place a balloon or inflatable ball on the blanket.
Guide the baby to imitate the look of her mother, swing the blanket up and down to let the balloon fly, and when the balloon falls, catch the balloon with the blanket.
?Game material: Buttoned coat pLAY: This game requires 4 people to participate. You can start the whole family to play together. Each person wears a buttoned coat. Ask the baby to count the buttons on each person’s jacket.There are as many buttons.
In pairs, help each other to unbutton the buttons, and then take off their jackets.
Whichever group is completed first wins. Tip: During the entire game, everyone cannot unlock their own buttons, otherwise they will be fouled.
There are three correct conditions for this game: the baby will already unlock the buttons (this is also a skill that babies of this age should learn); the buttons cannot exceed three, because the number concept of the baby at this age is only three (you can all deductThe top three buckles, the other buckles are unlocked, so as to ensure the same number); button belt, it is easier for the baby to undo.